Daily musings 1:
When people come to know that you enjoy reading, the best thing they do is start giving you books as gifts.
This would’ve certainly sounded great few decades ago when I wasn’t able to afford the relatively expensive books because of total lack of any income. But this time it turned out that the books became actually cheaper than the growing income levels of people. Now as it happens… I get to have more than 2-3 copies of the same book.
And when people come to know that you are mainly interested in personal finance, start gifting, you books on finance And that too of people like Warren Buffett, whom I don’t consider much of my competition for obvious reasons …hahaha…
Anyway, the book that I have been more prolifically gifted is IKIGAI - Certainly very much talked and the least read and even lesser understood book.
IKIGAI as it turns out means the reason of one’s existence.
But it is not so much as the reason rather the understanding of the reason of being or existence.
The elements of IKIGAI are least understood and even lesser followed.
In the world where our eyes,ears, and hence the mind is always being torpedoed by Constant external stimuli, which may or may not have relevance to us it is very difficult to make a selection of those stimuli before they actually impinge on your sentence, but it is very easy. Erase them immediately once a person has screamed them.
So today, a person who gifted me the last of the additions of IKIGAI book phoned me up. First, she wanted to test me by asking if I had opened the gift wrapping and when I confirmed the name of the book to him, he asked me if I had read it and when I confirmed that also ,then she asked me the inevitable question what is your IKIGAI …
IT WAS RATHER EASY QUESTION FOR ME BECAUSE A LOT OF PEOPLE HAVE ASKED ME THIS QUESTION AT VARIOUS STAGES OF LIFE AND SPECIALLY IN THE PAST 11 YEARS SINCE I GAVE UP GAINFUL EMPLOYMENT.
I told him that the way I live and what I do is my IKIGAI .
Since we were not on a video call, I could only sense her thoughts behind the long pause in the discussion. Finally, he said that can you enumerate that for me?
I said OK then take it down in the classical exam book style:
I get up at different times in the morning without an alarm and the first thing that I do is thank the people who come to my mind for the difference that they have made in my life.
Then I thank various parts of my body for still working in the morning at my age.
I raise the blinds to look at the vast expanse of my town or on the other side the mighty Himalayas being slowly denuded and torn down.But I do not feel any animosity or remorse at the conditions around me. I feel that it is simply a change that is taking place around me and I cannot and should not try to stop it or change it because I know that I cannot.
Then After sumptuous breakfast, I sit down to answer my WhatsApp messages, emails or schedule the phone calls that come in from various Mariners.
To this he retorted How can I equate material gains to IKIGAI.
I replied - for me It is not the gains that I am trying equate For me, it is an education to self sufficiency and security of self and family that I am trying people to help build up.
I told him about this Capt.,, who is in the hospital with serious issue and the family needs close to 10 lakhs every month. This, I had precisely foreseen Quite early in life and had been working towards it rather whole of my life.
I said that I find fulfillment in that department for two reasons and that ; firstly I do not seek anything in return and secondly, I’m simply trying to share a knowledge that I did not acquire from any formal education.
When I gave up my career, I was given a choice of teaching in a few institutions and even going back to my own college, but I realized that there were a lot of people more qualified than me who could do those jobs better than me. But this was one thing in which I have been marginally, successful and satisfied for myself. Therefore, if I tried to reach out to people and teach them the same thing, they would probably have a reason to listen to me.
And what about your personal front? What do you enjoy?
I said that I have enjoyed various things that different points of life.
There was a time when I enjoyed long drive of few thousand kilometers .
I also enjoyed physical activities specially those that I had not done earlier in my life like scuba diving.
I enjoyed going long bicycle rides daily.
I enjoyed learning various languages to speak and scripts to write.
In the same series now I enjoy long and daily Vipassana meditations and playing with my grandchildren.
I enjoy connecting Buddha and his teachings with all archaeological discoveries and finding the connect between the two. I have started learning the most ancient language of Pali and Brahmi script to understand what people in those times felt.
By now my friend was visibly getting bored so she finally threw me a Trump card…No, not of the contemporary American variety…
She said that she had just given the book to me recently So how could I possibly find so many Ikigai.
So now it was my turnTo call for a show…
I said the first time I heard about Japan and their few words was very early in childhood and possibly I was in class fourAnd had been read out the travelogues of the editor of a children’s Hindi magazine called Parag.
The few sentences that my mother read out to me, made a great impact on my mind about the civilization, which was considered to be very violent and aggressive because of their military pursuits, but on the personal front, they were so gentle and caring about themselves and those around them.
Finally, she hung up..
So it is not about various terminology that we use what we need to be a simply be at peace with ourselves And to be normal in our interactions with the external world of people and nature. There is no need to be projecting what we are not and there is also no need to hide of what we actually are.